...he disgraces my family?

Ayesha: Daddy, do you remember telling me that if a man gets on top of me, he disgraces my family? Father: Yeah, good girl, you remember things... That's nice. Ayesha: Last night when I went to Abdul's house. He tried getting on top of me, but I refused. Father: That's my girl. I know you will never disappoint me. Ayesha: Instead I got on top of him and disgraced his family 3 times.